1) I don’t love talking on the phone.
2) I love being spontaneous.
3) I love girl time.
It’s true, I’m not much of a phone talker. I would much rather see you in person and spend time talking to you one on one. I think this has a lot to do with my love language of quality time. That and words of encouragement. You would think that being a lover of words I would love phone talking, but alas, I do not. Anyway, this creates a problem for my friends who don’t live in the same city as me. It typically means we go months without talking, then either spend hours on one phone conversation catching up, or we finally end up seeing each other months later and spend days catching up.
I’m not saying it’s the best approach to long distance friendships, but it has become reality for a lot of mine. Most of my friends are better at calling me than I ever am at calling them. It’s shameful. This is where I feel like I should sincerely apologize to those of you who live outside of the Houston city limits. I hope you know that I love you dearly. : )
Anyway, after a very busy, but wonderful weekend, I had every intention of chilling at home on Monday, getting a few things done around the apartment and training for my triathlon that is in 12 days. That is a typical Monday for me. Remember, I have Monday's off since Sunday's are a work day for me.
However, when I realized that my sweet friend, Raven, was in Houston, we immediately made plans to see each other on Monday. Her original plan was to stop in Huntsville on her way back to Ft. Worth that day to see our other college BFF, Hannah and meet her new special friend, if you know what I mean. It didn’t take her two seconds to convince me to drive to Huntsville to do the same. Impromptu day date with some of my favorite girls even if it meant driving to Huntsville after just driving to Dallas this weekend? Yes please!
The thing is; I love these girls to bits. We’ve been known to call ourselves the “single ladies” for obvious reasons. But more than that, we’ve all walked very similar roads since graduating from college. Not only are we treading through the same season, we also all ended up in ministry. Raven works in children’s ministry in Ft. Worth, I work in middle school and high school ministry here in Houston and Hannah works in college ministry up in Huntsville at Sam Houston State. I like to think of us as the trifecta. Ha! We’ll do the best we can to get you from pre-school to college with a mighty dose of help from the Lord. At least for now.
Our best times together have always been very impromptu and this one was no different. Nor did it disappoint. It may have been January since I last talked to either of them, but we didn’t skip a beat. No awkwardness. No beating around the bush, just flat out, sweet friendship that continues to grow and blossom that the Lord started while we were in college.
However, I have to say, Monday was a trip. Right after we finished lunch, Raven got a text from her sister asking if we wanted to meet her at a car dealership in Conroe. A little bit of history is that a couple years ago Raven was in a really bad accident, I actually blogged about it here. Since then, she’s been driving her sister’s car and has been on the hunt for a new car. If she didn’t buy one Monday, she was never going to get one in her indecisive ways. With her sister, and us, she could surely get the job done. So, the three of us piled in her car, and headed to Conroe. Mind you, I left my car in Huntsville only because I couldn’t stand the thought of driving separately from them. We still had a lot to catch up on!
Long story short, we ended up at two different dealerships, and after much thought and waiting, she ended up purchasing her first car. Hannah and I sat in the waiting room most of the time and gathered that this is how it would be when she has her first baby. It sure felt that way at least! After the long process, we ate dinner at Texas Roadhouse where the sweet rolls come in dozens, then made our trek back to Huntsvegas in her new car so I could get my car and head south (where we’d just been), and Raven could head north to Ft. Worth.
What was supposed to do a fun lunch date, turned into an all day adventure. I loved every single minute of it. I love these girls so much and was in every way shape and form encouraged by spending my day with them.
Friendships are a sweet gift from the Lord. He’s never ceased to bless me abundantly in that area and I am forever, forever grateful.
And that, my friends, is why I wouldn’t have spent my Monday any other way.

